Lots of time is spent lying to yourself about what you truly want from life because you have labeled it as impossible or you have no idea about the how, what and where. Even worse, you compromise , settle or talk yourself out of what you really want. The truth is you don’t have what you want in life because you have not decided. That is the true power of a decision as the how, what and where will work themselves out.
Its amazing how easily you can list 10 20 things you don’t want and struggle to come up with the same number when it comes to what you want out of life. This ties back to what you focus on expands. If you are only worried or looking at the things you don’t want in life then of course you are going to get more of the same and its no surprise your life sucks. Change your focus, change your reality… a very simple formula indeed.
Somehow you have allowed other people’s dreams and desires to taint your own and you squash what you really want because you want to please people. Do you find yourself using the following phrases? ‘I’ll have anything” or “You choose” or “It doesn’t matter” or the cult favorite “Whatever”.
I know you have probably used those phrases at one point or the other which in effect is giving away your choice to someone else. Successful people make decisions and if you truly can’t pin down what you want… then ask yourself this question, “If I were to make a choice, what would I choose”. At the end of the day its about doing what you need to to honor you. You deserve to have all the abundance the earth has to offer.
I challenge you to write 30 things you want to have, 30 things you want to be and 30 things you want to do. It doesn’t matter how far out the thought is… like “I want to do the moon walk on the actual moon”, write it down. Life has a funny way of giving you the things you focus on however the first step in the equation is to decide what you want.
Love Peace and Bliss